Entries by Karen Chaston

Avoidance Tactics Recap

Over the past eight days we have delved into Avoidance Tactics. Those coping mechanisms that are utilised to temporarily alleviate emotional pain associated with loss. Though when utilised to excess, your life begins to spiral. The eight most common avoidance tactics are: Food Alcohol Drugs Anger Excess Work Isolation Excess Exercise Distractions – Fantasy/TV/Netflix/Social Media […]

Retail Therapy

Avoidance tactics are often used as coping mechanisms to temporarily alleviate emotional pain associated with loss. Though in excess, your life begins to spiral. In order to assist you with this we are doing a series of posts that delve into the eight most common avoidance tactics. Today is day eight and our final avoidance […]

Excess Sex

Avoidance tactics are often used as coping mechanisms to temporarily alleviate emotional pain associated with loss. Though in excess, your life begins to spiral. In order to assist you with this we are doing a series of posts that delve into the eight most common avoidance tactics. Today is day seven and we are looking […]

Distractions

Avoidance tactics are often used as coping mechanisms to temporarily alleviate emotional pain associated with loss. Though in excess, your life begins to spiral. In order to assist you with this we are doing a series of posts that delve into the eight most common avoidance tactics. Today is day six and we are looking […]

Isolation

  Avoidance tactics are often used as coping mechanisms to temporarily alleviate emotional pain associated with loss. Though in excess, your life begins to spiral. In order to assist you with this we are doing a series of posts that delve into the eight most common avoidance tactics. Today is day four and we are […]

Excess Work

  Avoidance tactics are often used as coping mechanisms to temporarily alleviate emotional pain associated with loss. Though in excess, your life begins to spiral. In order to assist you with this we are doing a series of posts that delve into the eight most common avoidance tactics. Today is day three and we are […]

Anger

  Avoidance tactics are often used as coping mechanisms to temporarily alleviate emotional pain associated with loss. Though in excess, your life begins to spiral. In order to assist you with this we are doing a series of posts that delve into the eight most common avoidance tactics. Today is day two and we are […]

Food Alchol Drugs

Avoidance tactics are often used as coping mechanisms to temporarily alleviate emotional pain associated with loss. Though in excess, your life begins to spiral. However, they are generally not effective in the long run and can have negative consequences if relied upon excessively. Recognising and addressing these avoidance behaviours is crucial to progress towards healthier, […]

The Avoidance Loop

In order to quieten our Unconscious Mind Loss Loop and to justify our beyond loss tactics, we can create the Avoidance Loop. The avoidance loop involves a recurring pattern of negative self-talk and thought patterns that can keep you stuck in a cycle of avoidance and emotional distress. Some of the common statements within this […]

Coping Strategies

  Coping strategies are psychological patterns that individuals use to manage thoughts, feelings and actions encountered during any loss event. Many times, in life we have developed unconscious habits that are not serving us. To change a habit, we must first be aware of it. Which of these three coping strategies is your default strategy? […]